Men!!!!!!!!
A young Nigerian Twitter Lady has come under fire after she opined that a man, who wants to be in a relationship with her, naturally owes her money.
Simply as Nneka, speaking via Twitter said she believes that it is only natural for a man to take care of the financial responsibilities of his woman and it isn’t negotiable once he said: "I Love You."
A lot of people on Twitter have ‘attacked’ Nneka over this statement, majority are of the opinion that, a relationship shouldn’t be a ‘poverty alleviation scheme’,but the truth is that she spoke for a majority of Nigerian women.
But Guys, Why Must You Date Girls Like Nneka or how do some of you even cope with dating a girl like Nneka?
I mean:
1. A girl who doesn't have transport fare to see someone who she claims she loves every damn time.
2. A lady who can't get you a birthday or a Valentine's day gift, but expects you to bring down the world for her during hers.
3. Someone who can't comfortably call you on phone for 5mins. Always flashing and
complaining she doesn't have airtime.
4a. I mean how do you guys cope dating a lady who thinks relationship is an occupation;
where she is supposed to be paid and taken care of?
4b. Even if it's an occupation, what services is she actually offering to be privileged to receive such benefits?
4c. Or is she a ghost worker?
( NB: sex is not a benefit ONLY to men )
How do some guys manage to date such ladies?
5. No wonder suicide and depression victims are mostly men.
6. See guy, don't ever date a broke girl no matter how gorgeous you think she is. They are serious liabilities.
7. Rather date a lady who adds something beneficial to your life. Things like emotional intelligence; financial intelligence; spiritual intelligence and other intelligence.
8. Date someone who's capable of calming the storm within your soul ( an average man has enough storms ); and not someone who adds stress to your life.
9. Forget that yehn yehn talk, don't tolerate any woman's brokenness or stupidity just because of her physical beauty.
10. There are actually a lot of extremely gorgeous and beautiful ladies with common sense.
11. So don't ever think of settling for less brother.
One thing I've realized about all these broke girls is not that they don't actually have money...
12. Most of them do; but it's just that they're mentally broke, which is way way worse than not having money.
I know many girls and ladies gonna be angry with this post, they won't like or comment in it .
But again.. There are many and uncountable married women out there who are the backbones of their families. Kudos to them!
Likewise, there many of our young ladies who are neither after money nor today's enjoyment only but who are ready to rise and fall with you! Look for them and never disappoint them!
Photo Credit: Internet
1. A girl who doesn't have transport fare to see someone who she claims she loves every damn time.
2. A lady who can't get you a birthday or a Valentine's day gift, but expects you to bring down the world for her during hers.
3. Someone who can't comfortably call you on phone for 5mins. Always flashing and
complaining she doesn't have airtime.
4a. I mean how do you guys cope dating a lady who thinks relationship is an occupation;
where she is supposed to be paid and taken care of?
4b. Even if it's an occupation, what services is she actually offering to be privileged to receive such benefits?
4c. Or is she a ghost worker?
( NB: sex is not a benefit ONLY to men )
How do some guys manage to date such ladies?
5. No wonder suicide and depression victims are mostly men.
6. See guy, don't ever date a broke girl no matter how gorgeous you think she is. They are serious liabilities.
7. Rather date a lady who adds something beneficial to your life. Things like emotional intelligence; financial intelligence; spiritual intelligence and other intelligence.
8. Date someone who's capable of calming the storm within your soul ( an average man has enough storms ); and not someone who adds stress to your life.
9. Forget that yehn yehn talk, don't tolerate any woman's brokenness or stupidity just because of her physical beauty.
10. There are actually a lot of extremely gorgeous and beautiful ladies with common sense.
11. So don't ever think of settling for less brother.
One thing I've realized about all these broke girls is not that they don't actually have money...
12. Most of them do; but it's just that they're mentally broke, which is way way worse than not having money.
I know many girls and ladies gonna be angry with this post, they won't like or comment in it .
But again.. There are many and uncountable married women out there who are the backbones of their families. Kudos to them!
Likewise, there many of our young ladies who are neither after money nor today's enjoyment only but who are ready to rise and fall with you! Look for them and never disappoint them!
Photo Credit: Internet
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