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Parenting: Teach your children these important words

Parenting: Teach your children these important words

Things you need to teach your Child(ren) at early age:



1: Warn your Girl Child Never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles.


2: Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself.


3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as 'my wife' or 'my husband'


4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves.


5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.


6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.


7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of sex . If you don't, the society will teach them the wrong values.


8: It is always advisable you go through any new Material like.

Things you need to teach your Child(ren) at early age:



1: Warn your Girl Child Never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles.


2: Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself.


3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as 'my wife' or 'my husband'


4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves.


5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.


6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.


7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of sex . If you don't, the society will teach them the wrong values.


8: It is always advisable you go through any new Material like.

NO GUARANTEE OF TOMORROW: THE DEATH OF HER HUSBAND SAVED MY MARRIAGE

NO GUARANTEE OF TOMORROW: THE DEATH OF HER HUSBAND SAVED MY MARRIAGE

THIS WRITE UP WILL BE USEFUL TO MARRIED AND UNMARRIED COUPLES.



Susan attended a funeral service of her friend who lost her husband at Langata Cemetery.


Susan held her wailing friend strongly as the casket was lowered into the freshly dug grave.


Susan's friend was screaming "My husband don't leave me, please, don't leave me!" as people looked on feeling sad for her. 


The children were screaming too. Losing a father is not an easy thing.


If not for Susan, the friend would have thrown herself into the grave to be buried with her husband who died of suicide.  Because, the husband found no meaning in life and he killed himself.


Susan remembered the many times the friend would say she is tired of her good for nothing husband and here she is screaming and feeling lost because the husband is no more. 


The friend cried till she fainted. Susan and the rest people around carry the devasted woman to an ambulance for first aid.


As Susan watched the spectacle of broken hearts crying for a man who will never ever come back, Susan remembered her husband. 


Susan remembered how much she takes her husband for granted.


How she talks to him however she pleases.


How she gives him prolonged silent treatment over issues they can easily resolve.


How she denied him sex many times. And she asked herself "What if it  my husband that is buried today how would I feel?" Susan thought.


Susan remembered that she argued with her husband and he left the house with tension between them just because after all these years, he still leaves his plate in the living room instead of taking it to the sink after eating.


"God forbid that my husband die, but what if as my husband went out in anger and never returns and passes on, is this the last memory I would like my husband and I to have?" She thought again.


Susan began to remember all the wonderful things her husband has done in the past, which she never taught of before except complaining.


Now, in her heart, she begin to appreciates him for all his efforts no matter how small it was.


At that moment, she realise her areas of improvement, and said to herself "there is no other man I would rather share her life with than my loving husband."


She thought of life without him and it scared her. And said, "I would rather have disagreements with my loving husband than to lose him to death. I prefer his sense of humour and laughter than to cry for losing him."


That evening, after Susan took her widowed friend to a safe place, she passed by at the supermarket and bought her husband a card saying "Thank you for being in my life"


And when she got home, she cooked her husband's favourite meal and asked her children to join her in celebrating her husband.


That night, her husband came home expecting a fight from Susan, but instead, he got greeting and hugs from Susan and the children. 


He was welcomed with songs, dancing and laughter, cute drawings of him with warm messages from the children, a home cooked meal, pleasant conversations. And Susan's husband bust into tears when Susan and the children told him how much they love him and then surrounded him to pray for him. 


A grown man cried like a baby because of love. He felt needed and he asked them "Is today father's day?"


Susan looked into his eyes and said, "No, it is lover day. Because, everyday is special with you around me from now on, we will do nothing but love each other. 


I don't know how long we have to live together, but it will not be wasted by fights, misunderstanding, complains and lack of appreciation. 


In case you have forgotten, "I love you"


"I love you too" said Susan's husband as he kissed and hugged Susan, the children dancing and cheering on. 


Children long for a home where mom and dad give each other warmth.


Since then, both Susan and her husband have been a stronger and more loving couple after realizing that tomorrow is not guaranteed.

  

                

~ Sometimes the death of someone wakes us up to the reality of life.


~ Don't let the death of your spouse wake you up to the reality of life, it will be too late.


~ God forbid, if your spouse die today, will you regret how you have been treating him/her?


~ Do you think living alone without your spouse will be joyful to you?


~ Will you be able to transfer your children to another man or woman whom they have not grown to know?


~ If you decide to be a single father or mother, will you be able to do the job alone? 


~ Can you stand the pain of your kids asking why they don't have a father or mother like others?


~ What is it that you cannot mend in your marriage?


~ No doubt its not easy, but prayerfully love your spouse while he/she lives. It rubs on the children as well.


So mend your home, don't destroy it.


This post can save a family, therefore kindly share with others.


PLEASE HUSBAND MAKE SURE YOUR WIFE READ THIS ONE



Source: Social media

THIS WRITE UP WILL BE USEFUL TO MARRIED AND UNMARRIED COUPLES.



Susan attended a funeral service of her friend who lost her husband at Langata Cemetery.


Susan held her wailing friend strongly as the casket was lowered into the freshly dug grave.


Susan's friend was screaming "My husband don't leave me, please, don't leave me!" as people looked on feeling sad for her. 


The children were screaming too. Losing a father is not an easy thing.


If not for Susan, the friend would have thrown herself into the grave to be buried with her husband who died of suicide.  Because, the husband found no meaning in life and he killed himself.


Susan remembered the many times the friend would say she is tired of her good for nothing husband and here she is screaming and feeling lost because the husband is no more. 


The friend cried till she fainted. Susan and the rest people around carry the devasted woman to an ambulance for first aid.


As Susan watched the spectacle of broken hearts crying for a man who will never ever come back, Susan remembered her husband. 


Susan remembered how much she takes her husband for granted.


How she talks to him however she pleases.


How she gives him prolonged silent treatment over issues they can easily resolve.


How she denied him sex many times. And she asked herself "What if it  my husband that is buried today how would I feel?" Susan thought.


Susan remembered that she argued with her husband and he left the house with tension between them just because after all these years, he still leaves his plate in the living room instead of taking it to the sink after eating.


"God forbid that my husband die, but what if as my husband went out in anger and never returns and passes on, is this the last memory I would like my husband and I to have?" She thought again.


Susan began to remember all the wonderful things her husband has done in the past, which she never taught of before except complaining.


Now, in her heart, she begin to appreciates him for all his efforts no matter how small it was.


At that moment, she realise her areas of improvement, and said to herself "there is no other man I would rather share her life with than my loving husband."


She thought of life without him and it scared her. And said, "I would rather have disagreements with my loving husband than to lose him to death. I prefer his sense of humour and laughter than to cry for losing him."


That evening, after Susan took her widowed friend to a safe place, she passed by at the supermarket and bought her husband a card saying "Thank you for being in my life"


And when she got home, she cooked her husband's favourite meal and asked her children to join her in celebrating her husband.


That night, her husband came home expecting a fight from Susan, but instead, he got greeting and hugs from Susan and the children. 


He was welcomed with songs, dancing and laughter, cute drawings of him with warm messages from the children, a home cooked meal, pleasant conversations. And Susan's husband bust into tears when Susan and the children told him how much they love him and then surrounded him to pray for him. 


A grown man cried like a baby because of love. He felt needed and he asked them "Is today father's day?"


Susan looked into his eyes and said, "No, it is lover day. Because, everyday is special with you around me from now on, we will do nothing but love each other. 


I don't know how long we have to live together, but it will not be wasted by fights, misunderstanding, complains and lack of appreciation. 


In case you have forgotten, "I love you"


"I love you too" said Susan's husband as he kissed and hugged Susan, the children dancing and cheering on. 


Children long for a home where mom and dad give each other warmth.


Since then, both Susan and her husband have been a stronger and more loving couple after realizing that tomorrow is not guaranteed.

  

                

~ Sometimes the death of someone wakes us up to the reality of life.


~ Don't let the death of your spouse wake you up to the reality of life, it will be too late.


~ God forbid, if your spouse die today, will you regret how you have been treating him/her?


~ Do you think living alone without your spouse will be joyful to you?


~ Will you be able to transfer your children to another man or woman whom they have not grown to know?


~ If you decide to be a single father or mother, will you be able to do the job alone? 


~ Can you stand the pain of your kids asking why they don't have a father or mother like others?


~ What is it that you cannot mend in your marriage?


~ No doubt its not easy, but prayerfully love your spouse while he/she lives. It rubs on the children as well.


So mend your home, don't destroy it.


This post can save a family, therefore kindly share with others.


PLEASE HUSBAND MAKE SURE YOUR WIFE READ THIS ONE



Source: Social media

The famous POISON that silently makes Africans widows or widowers is the MAGGI CUBE

The famous POISON that silently makes Africans widows or widowers is the MAGGI CUBE

Yes Maggi in your everyday Soup and foods is a killer worst than HIV/AIDS, Ebola, covid-19 all joined together.


Are you shocked? Then read on..


Firstly it was created in 1886 by a Swiss named  Julius Maggi for LOW INCOME workers and the POOR, who could not afford to balance their diet with meat and fish because they were very expensive to them. 


In order to provide a TASTE of meat and fish to the poor, JULIUS MAGGI introduced the Maggi cube with its famous red and yellow label on the packaging.


In 1886, after the Berlin conference, colonial masters were free to export whatever they produced to their colonies mostly in Africa.This was how Julius Maggi thought that there would be lucrative market in Africa for his product.


So he exported and ingeniously launched his advertising there. It began to gain recognition and patronage in 1910. 


Prior to the introduction of Maggi to Nigerians, the local locust bean called IRU in Yoruba, DADDAWA in Hausa and OGIRI okpe in igbo  mixed with cray fish or dried fish was the traditional means of adding FLAVOUR and DELICACY to the soup. 


All these mixtures have  much medicinal benefits and may have contributed to the long life span and physical fitness enjoyed by our forefathers.


Maggi was not popular in Nigeria until in the early 1970s when it started spreading very fast in the market as neighbours and communities introduced it to one another.


The product succeeded because maggi cube could be kept longer at higher temperatures and with the possibility of giving a better taste to the cooking whenever used. 


The Knorr, Royco, Dangote cubes..etc are different brands competing with Maggi even though people generally regard all of them as Maggi.


Africans began and continue to put it in every dish despite the danger inherent in it.


DID YOU KNOW that Maggi contains a high level of MSG (MONOSODIUM GLUTAMATE)? extremely high level of lead nearly seven times above human body needs, transfats LDL, sodium all of which damage s the Brain cells and increases chances of stroke..etc.


Nigeria has continued to witness several brands of the product including the white Ajinomoto in the 1980s to 90s which medical experts condemned as capable of affecting the human liver.


Millions of Maggi cubes are sold and consumed every day in Africa so the company had to expand by creating eleven factories in the region despite warnings of public health risk associated with the products. 


Women, mostly ladies add as many cubes to their cookings to the extent of the level of sweetness they want the soup to produce. In many homes, the preparing of "moi moi" (steamed bean paste) akara (fried bean paste), beans, boiling fish etc cannot go without Maggi nowadays. African foods have the highest test in the world.


However, lots of people based on medical advice have wisely abandoned Maggi and have been using the traditional "iru" or crayfish as alternatives. 


"Consuming the Maggi cube in every cooking is akin to increasing cardiovascular risks including hypertension ,diabetes and stroke (cerebrovascular). The risk is higher particularly when one advances in age as it weakens the heart functions" -Dr Olúṣọlá Ajólore. 09-12-2020.


With high rate of Maggi consumption could develop erectile disfunction, persistent waist pain and rheumatism.(i.e. Dissolve six cubes in a 750ml of water, give he goat to drink and it can't mate for at least six months.)


Maggi has been identified as having greater negative consequences on human health than sugar. Unknown to many the product  is primarily the contributing factor in many cases of strokes in Africa because of its continuous mass consumption during the active ages.


Take a little dive at Google or YouTube and find out the hazards of Maggi seasoning cube for yourself and spread the message to SAVE AFRICANS.


Stay Blessed!

Yes Maggi in your everyday Soup and foods is a killer worst than HIV/AIDS, Ebola, covid-19 all joined together.


Are you shocked? Then read on..


Firstly it was created in 1886 by a Swiss named  Julius Maggi for LOW INCOME workers and the POOR, who could not afford to balance their diet with meat and fish because they were very expensive to them. 


In order to provide a TASTE of meat and fish to the poor, JULIUS MAGGI introduced the Maggi cube with its famous red and yellow label on the packaging.


In 1886, after the Berlin conference, colonial masters were free to export whatever they produced to their colonies mostly in Africa.This was how Julius Maggi thought that there would be lucrative market in Africa for his product.


So he exported and ingeniously launched his advertising there. It began to gain recognition and patronage in 1910. 


Prior to the introduction of Maggi to Nigerians, the local locust bean called IRU in Yoruba, DADDAWA in Hausa and OGIRI okpe in igbo  mixed with cray fish or dried fish was the traditional means of adding FLAVOUR and DELICACY to the soup. 


All these mixtures have  much medicinal benefits and may have contributed to the long life span and physical fitness enjoyed by our forefathers.


Maggi was not popular in Nigeria until in the early 1970s when it started spreading very fast in the market as neighbours and communities introduced it to one another.


The product succeeded because maggi cube could be kept longer at higher temperatures and with the possibility of giving a better taste to the cooking whenever used. 


The Knorr, Royco, Dangote cubes..etc are different brands competing with Maggi even though people generally regard all of them as Maggi.


Africans began and continue to put it in every dish despite the danger inherent in it.


DID YOU KNOW that Maggi contains a high level of MSG (MONOSODIUM GLUTAMATE)? extremely high level of lead nearly seven times above human body needs, transfats LDL, sodium all of which damage s the Brain cells and increases chances of stroke..etc.


Nigeria has continued to witness several brands of the product including the white Ajinomoto in the 1980s to 90s which medical experts condemned as capable of affecting the human liver.


Millions of Maggi cubes are sold and consumed every day in Africa so the company had to expand by creating eleven factories in the region despite warnings of public health risk associated with the products. 


Women, mostly ladies add as many cubes to their cookings to the extent of the level of sweetness they want the soup to produce. In many homes, the preparing of "moi moi" (steamed bean paste) akara (fried bean paste), beans, boiling fish etc cannot go without Maggi nowadays. African foods have the highest test in the world.


However, lots of people based on medical advice have wisely abandoned Maggi and have been using the traditional "iru" or crayfish as alternatives. 


"Consuming the Maggi cube in every cooking is akin to increasing cardiovascular risks including hypertension ,diabetes and stroke (cerebrovascular). The risk is higher particularly when one advances in age as it weakens the heart functions" -Dr Olúṣọlá Ajólore. 09-12-2020.


With high rate of Maggi consumption could develop erectile disfunction, persistent waist pain and rheumatism.(i.e. Dissolve six cubes in a 750ml of water, give he goat to drink and it can't mate for at least six months.)


Maggi has been identified as having greater negative consequences on human health than sugar. Unknown to many the product  is primarily the contributing factor in many cases of strokes in Africa because of its continuous mass consumption during the active ages.


Take a little dive at Google or YouTube and find out the hazards of Maggi seasoning cube for yourself and spread the message to SAVE AFRICANS.


Stay Blessed!

Health Education: Kill a cockroach today

Health Education: Kill a cockroach today

*Cockroaches*



Can survive a week without its head.

Can survive 2weeks without water.

Can survive one month without food

Can live in your house for 3½years (maximum life span) without been detected!!  


Defecates on human food.

Can trigger severe asthma attack.

Spreads bacteria that can cause food poisoning and typhoid.


A cockroach can kill you.

If you don’t kill it first.


These things are capable of the worst things you can imagine.


They eat almost anything even fellow insects. Hair, books, sweets, meat anything- they will eat.


They are attracted to human food.

They vomit on the food.

They defecate on the food.


Absolutely disgusting animals.


Some young cockroaches have been documented to crawl over sleeping human beings and crawl inside the ears, noses, and even open mouths.


So if you have cockroaches in your house and you sleep sometimes with your mouth open and drooling, a cockroach can scroll in for a kiss.😔


Cockroaches have been known to spread at least 33 kinds of bacteria, including E. coli and Salmonella, six parasitic worms and more than seven other types of human pathogens.


E. coli and Salmonella for example are classic causes of serious food poisoning, typhoid and diarrhea.


So what to do?

Prevent the environment that helps them thrive. That’s the main answer.


Keep your cupboards, sinks, tables and floors clean and free of dirty plates, unused utensils and old newspapers.


Clean your dishes, food crumbs and oil spills right away once you cook.


*Always store your food in airtight containers, and never leave your food out (even if it is pet food!).*


*Storing up food in nylon bags and sacks like garri and rice is NOT the best for you. These idiots can eat through the sack and ruin that food for you.*


*Don’t risk it at all.*


Seal cracks and gaps in walls, floors and openings around or inside cabinets.


Also make sure that you seal gaps around pipes, plumbing, wall outlets, and spaces under the doors to your house and kitchen.


From time to time, run hot water in spare bathrooms and little used sinks.


Always check your bag and your children's school bags when they return home, as well as your shopping items before storing them.


If despite all these measures, you still have a cockroach problem at home, contact a pest professional for assistance with elimination and prevention.


Smack with a broom.

Squash with slippers.

Boil in hot water.

Spray with an insecticide.

Kill with a gun.😂😂


Use whatever means you can.

But don’t ever ignore.


One cockroach can produce up to 1,000 new ones in a year to torment your life.


Kill cockroaches now

Before they kill you.


So ladies and gentlemen.

Do the world a favour:

Kill a cockroach today.


When you go to your friends house, as a show of goodwill, kill a cockroach.


When you go to your partner’s house, as a show of love, kill a cockroach.


Wherever you go, and you find one-

kill it. Just do it.

🎤🎤🎤

*Cockroaches*



Can survive a week without its head.

Can survive 2weeks without water.

Can survive one month without food

Can live in your house for 3½years (maximum life span) without been detected!!  


Defecates on human food.

Can trigger severe asthma attack.

Spreads bacteria that can cause food poisoning and typhoid.


A cockroach can kill you.

If you don’t kill it first.


These things are capable of the worst things you can imagine.


They eat almost anything even fellow insects. Hair, books, sweets, meat anything- they will eat.


They are attracted to human food.

They vomit on the food.

They defecate on the food.


Absolutely disgusting animals.


Some young cockroaches have been documented to crawl over sleeping human beings and crawl inside the ears, noses, and even open mouths.


So if you have cockroaches in your house and you sleep sometimes with your mouth open and drooling, a cockroach can scroll in for a kiss.😔


Cockroaches have been known to spread at least 33 kinds of bacteria, including E. coli and Salmonella, six parasitic worms and more than seven other types of human pathogens.


E. coli and Salmonella for example are classic causes of serious food poisoning, typhoid and diarrhea.


So what to do?

Prevent the environment that helps them thrive. That’s the main answer.


Keep your cupboards, sinks, tables and floors clean and free of dirty plates, unused utensils and old newspapers.


Clean your dishes, food crumbs and oil spills right away once you cook.


*Always store your food in airtight containers, and never leave your food out (even if it is pet food!).*


*Storing up food in nylon bags and sacks like garri and rice is NOT the best for you. These idiots can eat through the sack and ruin that food for you.*


*Don’t risk it at all.*


Seal cracks and gaps in walls, floors and openings around or inside cabinets.


Also make sure that you seal gaps around pipes, plumbing, wall outlets, and spaces under the doors to your house and kitchen.


From time to time, run hot water in spare bathrooms and little used sinks.


Always check your bag and your children's school bags when they return home, as well as your shopping items before storing them.


If despite all these measures, you still have a cockroach problem at home, contact a pest professional for assistance with elimination and prevention.


Smack with a broom.

Squash with slippers.

Boil in hot water.

Spray with an insecticide.

Kill with a gun.😂😂


Use whatever means you can.

But don’t ever ignore.


One cockroach can produce up to 1,000 new ones in a year to torment your life.


Kill cockroaches now

Before they kill you.


So ladies and gentlemen.

Do the world a favour:

Kill a cockroach today.


When you go to your friends house, as a show of goodwill, kill a cockroach.


When you go to your partner’s house, as a show of love, kill a cockroach.


Wherever you go, and you find one-

kill it. Just do it.

🎤🎤🎤

DADDY, MUMMY: AVOID FAMILY PORNOGRAPHY!!!!

DADDY, MUMMY: AVOID FAMILY PORNOGRAPHY!!!!


MUMMY!!


Please Stop sitting as if you are in the labour room; Opening your legs for your son to see your inner tight & pant.


DADDY!!


Please Don't wear ordinary boxers at home that you sit

down, Open your legs and your 'thing' is dangling and your

daughter is seeing it.


There are things you should not wear beyond your bedroom,

just for your spouse.


Don't say because you want to enjoy your freedom in your

house.


It is not your house alone, it's a family house/home.


You are putting your children into sexual bondage through

these acts.i know you may not understand it but,


MUMMY!


Wearing ordinary bra around the house in the presence of your

sons is dangerous.


No, they won't lust after you. But you might be increasing their

curiosity to see the breasts of ladies out there.


DADDY!


Wearing ordinary Boxers around your house in the presence of

your daughters is dangerous too.


Not that your daughters will lust after you but it makes them to

actually see how the real thing is.


DEAR PARENTS!


Let's stop being 'PORNOGRAPHY MATERIALS' to our children.

Raising sexually pure children, it begins at home.'


As parents, it is still your responsibility to build virtue into your

family.


If your Children are not properly groomed, they may never get

to the top in life, even if you the parents are at the top of your

respective careers.


MANNERS take you to where your education can't irrespective

of your status , money or "who you know".


PLEASE MUMS & DADS, take note of what you just read now.


Don't make mistakes that will bring you pain and sorrow in the

future.


Don't say you are not married, you will soon get married,

please put this into practice.


Remember a child's mind is like a video camera, it records

everything as it sees or hear it. 


A replay of it will tell you the

things you have done how you did or say it.


May God bless you and your wonderful homes.


Author: Anonymous


MUMMY!!


Please Stop sitting as if you are in the labour room; Opening your legs for your son to see your inner tight & pant.


DADDY!!


Please Don't wear ordinary boxers at home that you sit

down, Open your legs and your 'thing' is dangling and your

daughter is seeing it.


There are things you should not wear beyond your bedroom,

just for your spouse.


Don't say because you want to enjoy your freedom in your

house.


It is not your house alone, it's a family house/home.


You are putting your children into sexual bondage through

these acts.i know you may not understand it but,


MUMMY!


Wearing ordinary bra around the house in the presence of your

sons is dangerous.


No, they won't lust after you. But you might be increasing their

curiosity to see the breasts of ladies out there.


DADDY!


Wearing ordinary Boxers around your house in the presence of

your daughters is dangerous too.


Not that your daughters will lust after you but it makes them to

actually see how the real thing is.


DEAR PARENTS!


Let's stop being 'PORNOGRAPHY MATERIALS' to our children.

Raising sexually pure children, it begins at home.'


As parents, it is still your responsibility to build virtue into your

family.


If your Children are not properly groomed, they may never get

to the top in life, even if you the parents are at the top of your

respective careers.


MANNERS take you to where your education can't irrespective

of your status , money or "who you know".


PLEASE MUMS & DADS, take note of what you just read now.


Don't make mistakes that will bring you pain and sorrow in the

future.


Don't say you are not married, you will soon get married,

please put this into practice.


Remember a child's mind is like a video camera, it records

everything as it sees or hear it. 


A replay of it will tell you the

things you have done how you did or say it.


May God bless you and your wonderful homes.


Author: Anonymous

19 ways to fix your Wife - when she is falling apart

19 ways to fix your Wife - when she is falling apart

Very interesting food for thought for every man around the world 

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Your wife can be dying in silence while still performing her wifely duties. You will need to know her to know when she needs to be fixed.

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When a woman is always moody, cries a lot, yells on Children, can easily sleep or sleeps a lot, she may be battling with something you are not careful enough to see.

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A real man will not allow his wife to fall apart without fixing her and making her better and happy.

If you discover your wife is falling apart, watch out and fix the following:

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Pic by wikihow.com

1. *CHECK IF YOU ARE THE PROBLEM*

You might be her problem, but out of her respect and love for you, she may not tell you. Ask, let her talk sincerely

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2. *BE AWARE OF HER RESPONSIBILITIES*

Get to know how her work load is killing her. Regardless of whether she stays at home or goes to work, do you know what she does all day? If you don’t, ask her. Her to-do list is probably overflowing with tasks that far outweighs her time and energy.

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3. *BE APPRECIATIVE*

Be mindful of her needs and appreciative of her sacrifices. The work a woman does at home can be too common that nobody will appreciate her for them, this can be killing her. Appreciate your wife

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4. *GET INVOLVED BEFORE SHE BURNS OUT*

Don’t just be appreciative, but get involved. The best time to begin helping your wife is now. Don’t wait until she breaks down to offer a helping hand.

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5. *GET MACHINE*

Get all the machine needed for her work at home (the ones you can afford). Dish washer, gas cooker, refrigerator, oven, laundering Machine, etc

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6. *BE AN ACTIVE PARTICIPANT*

Be totally involved at home, stop delegating parenting and family life. Don’t be a “visiting Professor”, be an active partner in this business of your life. It takes two to parent. It takes two to make a marriage work. It takes two to run a household. Be fully involved in every aspect of your family life.

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7. *HOLD HER*

Hold her like a lover and a friend. Place your hands on her shoulder, her laps, hold her hands, just hold her and let her feel you.

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8. *JUST LISTEN*

Most men are known to be good talker but very bad listeners. At times what your wife needs is for you to just listen. Do not interrupt, let her unburden, let her talk. Sometimes the best way for a woman to reset is by getting all of her thoughts out. Let your wife talk through her feelings and problems. Show empathy. Listen carefully. Ask questions. Be fully engaged in the conversation.

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9. *BE A PARTNER NOT A TEACHER*

Most men do fall into the “Teaching trap” when they are supposed to be a partner, showing love and consideration. Do not blame, just be there for her. Just listen. That’s all you need to do. And if she wants you to offer solutions, she’ll ask for them

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10. *GIVE HER HOPE*

No matter what happens, don’t ever raise up your hands in surrender. Giving up, crying or weeping will hurt your wife more. Encourage her. Let her know what you love about her. Help her see the good in any situation. Avoid being critical or negative. When she has hit the rock bottom, be the man who lifts her up, and brings light and hope back into her life.

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11. *BE SENSITIVE*

Get to know her mood, get to know her needs, get to know what is needed to be done at home and do them without prompting.

Learn the act of looking around the house and finding things that need to get done. Are there dishes in the sink? What is broken that needs to be fixed? Don’t wait to be asked. Just do it!

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12. *PRAY FOR HER*

Take your time off to pray for her, hand her over to her maker who knows the deepest need of her heart . Let God fix her, you can’t do it alone.

Let God know what you appreciate about her. Ask for his help. Ask him to tell you how you can be a better spouse to her. Ask God to comfort her and help her see herself as He see’s her as a woman of virtue.

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13. *PRAY WITH HER*

Don’t just pray for your wife, find time to pray with her, hug her as you pray together, hold her hands, just talk to your maker together.

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14. *ASK HER HOW YOU CAN BE OF HELP*

Your wife knows what you can do to help her reset, so just ask her. She will open up to you, it may not be what you think, so don’t speculate, ask, She’ll appreciate it more than you will ever know.

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15. *HELP AROUND THE HOUSE*

Give a helping hand around the house. Give her a kitchen holiday for some days, do all the cooking or hire somebody to do it for you. Let her just sit, eat and rest, this may be all she needs,

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16. *TAKE HER OUT*

Take her out, eat out, go to the cinema, go to wherever she will love to go, not where you want, just follow her.

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17. *ALLOW HER TO CRY, IF SHE MUST*

“Stop crying, are you a baby?, will you be crying about this little thing?” This is what most high handed husband will do when their wives cries, what an insensitive word. If she feels like crying, hold her to yourself and let her do the crying while you pat her on the back. It’s a great way to fix the problem.

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18. *LET HER GO ON HOLIDAY*

Sometimes if need be, allow her to go on holiday all alone to free up burden occupying her mind, this can fix the problem as she returns with greater energy.

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19. *CELEBRATE HER*

Let your wife be celebrated. Celebrate her in secret and in public. Talk about her beauty, motherhood, wifehood, support, thoughtfulness. This will make her day.

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*Let the men read and apply....*


*Let the women read share, and forward to the men..*


Daddies in the house, please, read it ooo 

Author: Anonymous

Very interesting food for thought for every man around the world 

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Your wife can be dying in silence while still performing her wifely duties. You will need to know her to know when she needs to be fixed.

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When a woman is always moody, cries a lot, yells on Children, can easily sleep or sleeps a lot, she may be battling with something you are not careful enough to see.

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A real man will not allow his wife to fall apart without fixing her and making her better and happy.

If you discover your wife is falling apart, watch out and fix the following:

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1. *CHECK IF YOU ARE THE PROBLEM*

You might be her problem, but out of her respect and love for you, she may not tell you. Ask, let her talk sincerely

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2. *BE AWARE OF HER RESPONSIBILITIES*

Get to know how her work load is killing her. Regardless of whether she stays at home or goes to work, do you know what she does all day? If you don’t, ask her. Her to-do list is probably overflowing with tasks that far outweighs her time and energy.

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3. *BE APPRECIATIVE*

Be mindful of her needs and appreciative of her sacrifices. The work a woman does at home can be too common that nobody will appreciate her for them, this can be killing her. Appreciate your wife

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4. *GET INVOLVED BEFORE SHE BURNS OUT*

Don’t just be appreciative, but get involved. The best time to begin helping your wife is now. Don’t wait until she breaks down to offer a helping hand.

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5. *GET MACHINE*

Get all the machine needed for her work at home (the ones you can afford). Dish washer, gas cooker, refrigerator, oven, laundering Machine, etc

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6. *BE AN ACTIVE PARTICIPANT*

Be totally involved at home, stop delegating parenting and family life. Don’t be a “visiting Professor”, be an active partner in this business of your life. It takes two to parent. It takes two to make a marriage work. It takes two to run a household. Be fully involved in every aspect of your family life.

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7. *HOLD HER*

Hold her like a lover and a friend. Place your hands on her shoulder, her laps, hold her hands, just hold her and let her feel you.

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8. *JUST LISTEN*

Most men are known to be good talker but very bad listeners. At times what your wife needs is for you to just listen. Do not interrupt, let her unburden, let her talk. Sometimes the best way for a woman to reset is by getting all of her thoughts out. Let your wife talk through her feelings and problems. Show empathy. Listen carefully. Ask questions. Be fully engaged in the conversation.

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9. *BE A PARTNER NOT A TEACHER*

Most men do fall into the “Teaching trap” when they are supposed to be a partner, showing love and consideration. Do not blame, just be there for her. Just listen. That’s all you need to do. And if she wants you to offer solutions, she’ll ask for them

.

10. *GIVE HER HOPE*

No matter what happens, don’t ever raise up your hands in surrender. Giving up, crying or weeping will hurt your wife more. Encourage her. Let her know what you love about her. Help her see the good in any situation. Avoid being critical or negative. When she has hit the rock bottom, be the man who lifts her up, and brings light and hope back into her life.

.

11. *BE SENSITIVE*

Get to know her mood, get to know her needs, get to know what is needed to be done at home and do them without prompting.

Learn the act of looking around the house and finding things that need to get done. Are there dishes in the sink? What is broken that needs to be fixed? Don’t wait to be asked. Just do it!

.

12. *PRAY FOR HER*

Take your time off to pray for her, hand her over to her maker who knows the deepest need of her heart . Let God fix her, you can’t do it alone.

Let God know what you appreciate about her. Ask for his help. Ask him to tell you how you can be a better spouse to her. Ask God to comfort her and help her see herself as He see’s her as a woman of virtue.

.

13. *PRAY WITH HER*

Don’t just pray for your wife, find time to pray with her, hug her as you pray together, hold her hands, just talk to your maker together.

.

14. *ASK HER HOW YOU CAN BE OF HELP*

Your wife knows what you can do to help her reset, so just ask her. She will open up to you, it may not be what you think, so don’t speculate, ask, She’ll appreciate it more than you will ever know.

.

15. *HELP AROUND THE HOUSE*

Give a helping hand around the house. Give her a kitchen holiday for some days, do all the cooking or hire somebody to do it for you. Let her just sit, eat and rest, this may be all she needs,

.

16. *TAKE HER OUT*

Take her out, eat out, go to the cinema, go to wherever she will love to go, not where you want, just follow her.

.

17. *ALLOW HER TO CRY, IF SHE MUST*

“Stop crying, are you a baby?, will you be crying about this little thing?” This is what most high handed husband will do when their wives cries, what an insensitive word. If she feels like crying, hold her to yourself and let her do the crying while you pat her on the back. It’s a great way to fix the problem.

.

18. *LET HER GO ON HOLIDAY*

Sometimes if need be, allow her to go on holiday all alone to free up burden occupying her mind, this can fix the problem as she returns with greater energy.

.

19. *CELEBRATE HER*

Let your wife be celebrated. Celebrate her in secret and in public. Talk about her beauty, motherhood, wifehood, support, thoughtfulness. This will make her day.

.

*Let the men read and apply....*


*Let the women read share, and forward to the men..*


Daddies in the house, please, read it ooo 

Author: Anonymous

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