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NO SENSIBLE MAN CAN RESIST A WOMAN WHO IS BEAUTIFUL AND INDUSTRIOUS

NO SENSIBLE MAN CAN RESIST A WOMAN WHO IS BEAUTIFUL AND INDUSTRIOUS


What made a man worked for 7 years for the woman he loved and yet felt like he just worked for 7 days? *Value!*


My man doesn't respect me, is because you are not a *Value- Added-Woman (VAW)*


Do you realized that Jacob did not pay Leah's bride price?


They gave him Leah as bonus. Because she had no value. This was why Jacob had no respect for her and her children, hence he set them as first entourage when he was going to meet his angry brother. 


If you forced yourself on a man, he may never respect you. If he got you cheaply, he will never respect you.


If you are not adding *value* to his life, he will never respect you.


Even after marriage, Leah was begging and buying the

attention of her own husband. 


Rachael was practically in control of Jacob.


Rachael was a shepherd in the midst of her siblings, a

profession meant for men. 


She was in control of her father's business. This was what glued Jacob to her.


Gen 29:9 Jacob was still talking with them when Rachel arrived with her father’s flock, for she was a shepherd.


How can boys be in the house and a girl (last daughter of the

house) be the one to tend her father's flock and family

business? *Industrious* *nature!* 

After Jacob slept with Leah, he still went for Rachael. *Sex doesn't keep a man,* *value* does.


Leah had 5 children, Rachael had none, yet Jacob still loved Rachael more than Leah. 


 *Having children is good but adding value is better.* 


Don't ever think you can pin a man down with children. If you like give him a nation, if you are not adding value to his life, he will walk away someday.


I'm pleading with our parents not to raise their daughters in a way they will be liabilities to their man. 


 *Make your daughter a shepherd before her Jacob arrives.* *(Self)* 


Give her a source of livelihood before marriage. If you want her husband to *respect* you as Inlaw and *value* her as a quality wife and real life partner, give her quality character with home training, quality and respectful hand work and education, to ensure a hopeful future for her in her future home. 


Don't train her merely because of the bride price you want to collect on her. Laban wasted the bride price he took for his daughter. But he lived on the flock kept by his daughter even after she was married out.


This is why many men fall for their ugly hardworking housemaids than their beautiful house wives. 


We indirectly train our housemaids to be industrious while we train our daughters to be lazy and dependants. Future will tell.

Be a *Value-Added-Woman and your man will respect you.*


The Lord will keep our homes, marriages.๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ Amen.


Thank you for reading..


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By:✍️✍️✍️

UNIQUE COUPLE'S WORLD. 

(BUILDING A HAPPY HOME)

Wish you the best in your marriage.


What made a man worked for 7 years for the woman he loved and yet felt like he just worked for 7 days? *Value!*


My man doesn't respect me, is because you are not a *Value- Added-Woman (VAW)*


Do you realized that Jacob did not pay Leah's bride price?


They gave him Leah as bonus. Because she had no value. This was why Jacob had no respect for her and her children, hence he set them as first entourage when he was going to meet his angry brother. 


If you forced yourself on a man, he may never respect you. If he got you cheaply, he will never respect you.


If you are not adding *value* to his life, he will never respect you.


Even after marriage, Leah was begging and buying the

attention of her own husband. 


Rachael was practically in control of Jacob.


Rachael was a shepherd in the midst of her siblings, a

profession meant for men. 


She was in control of her father's business. This was what glued Jacob to her.


Gen 29:9 Jacob was still talking with them when Rachel arrived with her father’s flock, for she was a shepherd.


How can boys be in the house and a girl (last daughter of the

house) be the one to tend her father's flock and family

business? *Industrious* *nature!* 

After Jacob slept with Leah, he still went for Rachael. *Sex doesn't keep a man,* *value* does.


Leah had 5 children, Rachael had none, yet Jacob still loved Rachael more than Leah. 


 *Having children is good but adding value is better.* 


Don't ever think you can pin a man down with children. If you like give him a nation, if you are not adding value to his life, he will walk away someday.


I'm pleading with our parents not to raise their daughters in a way they will be liabilities to their man. 


 *Make your daughter a shepherd before her Jacob arrives.* *(Self)* 


Give her a source of livelihood before marriage. If you want her husband to *respect* you as Inlaw and *value* her as a quality wife and real life partner, give her quality character with home training, quality and respectful hand work and education, to ensure a hopeful future for her in her future home. 


Don't train her merely because of the bride price you want to collect on her. Laban wasted the bride price he took for his daughter. But he lived on the flock kept by his daughter even after she was married out.


This is why many men fall for their ugly hardworking housemaids than their beautiful house wives. 


We indirectly train our housemaids to be industrious while we train our daughters to be lazy and dependants. Future will tell.

Be a *Value-Added-Woman and your man will respect you.*


The Lord will keep our homes, marriages.๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ Amen.


Thank you for reading..


Cooked and serves

By:✍️✍️✍️

UNIQUE COUPLE'S WORLD. 

(BUILDING A HAPPY HOME)

Wish you the best in your marriage.

BIG SECRETS IN MARRIAGE!

BIG SECRETS IN MARRIAGE!

                   *Secret 1*


Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his/her strength.


       


    *Secret 2*


Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married, stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.


            *Secret 3*


Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow: For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.


              *Secret 4*


Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with that of any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.


             *Secret 5*


To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:

Ignorance 

Prayerlessness

Unforgiveness 

Third party influence 

Stinginess

Stubbornness 

Lack of love 

Rudeness

Laziness 

Disrespect 

Cheating etc. 

Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.


             *Secret 6*


There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready - made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger, or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages. 


              *Secret 7*


God cannot give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould the person into what you desire. This can only be achieved through prayer, love and Patience


             *Secret 8*


Getting married is taking a huge risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future. Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might divorce.


            *Secret 9*


Marriage is not a contract. It is permanent. It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. Divorce starts in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married. God hates divorce.


            *Secret 10*


Every marriage has a price to pay. Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home.


So today let us pray for our marriages. Send to those you care about because you never know who you may be helping. May God bless you all. Amen.


Author: Anonymous

                   *Secret 1*


Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his/her strength.


       


    *Secret 2*


Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married, stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.


            *Secret 3*


Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow: For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.


              *Secret 4*


Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with that of any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.


             *Secret 5*


To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:

Ignorance 

Prayerlessness

Unforgiveness 

Third party influence 

Stinginess

Stubbornness 

Lack of love 

Rudeness

Laziness 

Disrespect 

Cheating etc. 

Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.


             *Secret 6*


There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready - made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger, or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages. 


              *Secret 7*


God cannot give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould the person into what you desire. This can only be achieved through prayer, love and Patience


             *Secret 8*


Getting married is taking a huge risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future. Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might divorce.


            *Secret 9*


Marriage is not a contract. It is permanent. It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. Divorce starts in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married. God hates divorce.


            *Secret 10*


Every marriage has a price to pay. Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home.


So today let us pray for our marriages. Send to those you care about because you never know who you may be helping. May God bless you all. Amen.


Author: Anonymous

Once Again, Happy Married life!!!

Once Again, Happy Married life!!!

 _*๐Ÿ‡น​๐Ÿ‡ด​๐Ÿ‡บ​๐Ÿ‡จ​๐Ÿ‡ญ​๐Ÿ‡ฎ​๐Ÿ‡ณ​๐Ÿ‡ฌ​*_

_*๐Ÿ‡ธ​๐Ÿ‡น​๐Ÿ‡ด​๐Ÿ‡ท​๐Ÿ‡พ​!!!*_



One day, during an evening class for adults, the Sociology Teacher entered the class and told students, “Let’s all play a game!” “What Game?”_


_The Teacher asked one of the students to volunteer. A woman, *Comfort* came forward._


_The Teacher asked her to write 30 names of most important people in her life on blackboard. *Comfort* wrote names of her family members, relatives, friends, her colleagues and her neighbors._


_The Teacher told her to erase 3 names that Comfort considered most unimportant. Comfort erased names of her colleagues._


_The Teacher again told her to delete 5 more names. She erased her neighbor's names. This went on until there were just four names left on the blackboard. These were names of her *mother, father, husband and the only son...*_


_The entire class became silent realizing that this wasn’t a game anymore for Comfort alone._


_Now, The Teacher told her to delete two more names. It was a very difficult choice for Aliza. She unwillingly deleted her parents names._


_“Please delete one more" said the Teacher. Comfort became very nervous and with trembling hands and tears in eyes she deleted her son’s name. Comfort cried painfully...The Teacher told her to take her seat._


_After a while Teacher asked, "Why your *husband*? The parents are the ones that nurtured you, and the son is the one you gave birth to?_

_And you can always find another husband!!!"_


_Total silence in the class. Everyone was curious to know her response. Comfort calmly and slowly said, *“One day my parents will pass away before me. My son may also leave me when he grows old, for his studies or business or whatever reason. The only one who will truly share his entire life with me, is my Husband”.*_


_All the students stood up and applauded her for sharing this truth of life._


_This is true and a fact of life. God created marriage for all and its a relationship for life._


_Always value your life partner, it's not only for *husbands alone but wives* as well. God has United these two souls as one and it's on you to nurture this relationship above all other relationship you have with friends, loved ones and family._


_Before marriage, God first, your family second but when married, God first and your husband or wife second._


_So as a Couple enjoy your marriage and make it healthy, truthful, peaceful, enjoying, religious, romantic and enviable!!!_


*H͓̽A͓̽P͓̽P͓̽Y͓̽ M͓̽A͓̽R͓̽R͓̽I͓̽E͓̽D͓̽ L͓̽I͓̽F͓̽E͓̽ T͓̽O͓̽ A͓̽L͓̽L͓̽ M͓̽A͓̽R͓̽R͓̽I͓̽E͓̽D͓̽ P͓̽E͓̽O͓̽P͓̽L͓̽E͓̽ O͓̽N͓̽ T͓̽H͓̽I͓̽S͓̽ P͓̽L͓̽A͓̽T͓̽F͓̽O͓̽R͓̽M͓̽*͓̽๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿฝ


Anonymous

 _*๐Ÿ‡น​๐Ÿ‡ด​๐Ÿ‡บ​๐Ÿ‡จ​๐Ÿ‡ญ​๐Ÿ‡ฎ​๐Ÿ‡ณ​๐Ÿ‡ฌ​*_

_*๐Ÿ‡ธ​๐Ÿ‡น​๐Ÿ‡ด​๐Ÿ‡ท​๐Ÿ‡พ​!!!*_



One day, during an evening class for adults, the Sociology Teacher entered the class and told students, “Let’s all play a game!” “What Game?”_


_The Teacher asked one of the students to volunteer. A woman, *Comfort* came forward._


_The Teacher asked her to write 30 names of most important people in her life on blackboard. *Comfort* wrote names of her family members, relatives, friends, her colleagues and her neighbors._


_The Teacher told her to erase 3 names that Comfort considered most unimportant. Comfort erased names of her colleagues._


_The Teacher again told her to delete 5 more names. She erased her neighbor's names. This went on until there were just four names left on the blackboard. These were names of her *mother, father, husband and the only son...*_


_The entire class became silent realizing that this wasn’t a game anymore for Comfort alone._


_Now, The Teacher told her to delete two more names. It was a very difficult choice for Aliza. She unwillingly deleted her parents names._


_“Please delete one more" said the Teacher. Comfort became very nervous and with trembling hands and tears in eyes she deleted her son’s name. Comfort cried painfully...The Teacher told her to take her seat._


_After a while Teacher asked, "Why your *husband*? The parents are the ones that nurtured you, and the son is the one you gave birth to?_

_And you can always find another husband!!!"_


_Total silence in the class. Everyone was curious to know her response. Comfort calmly and slowly said, *“One day my parents will pass away before me. My son may also leave me when he grows old, for his studies or business or whatever reason. The only one who will truly share his entire life with me, is my Husband”.*_


_All the students stood up and applauded her for sharing this truth of life._


_This is true and a fact of life. God created marriage for all and its a relationship for life._


_Always value your life partner, it's not only for *husbands alone but wives* as well. God has United these two souls as one and it's on you to nurture this relationship above all other relationship you have with friends, loved ones and family._


_Before marriage, God first, your family second but when married, God first and your husband or wife second._


_So as a Couple enjoy your marriage and make it healthy, truthful, peaceful, enjoying, religious, romantic and enviable!!!_


*H͓̽A͓̽P͓̽P͓̽Y͓̽ M͓̽A͓̽R͓̽R͓̽I͓̽E͓̽D͓̽ L͓̽I͓̽F͓̽E͓̽ T͓̽O͓̽ A͓̽L͓̽L͓̽ M͓̽A͓̽R͓̽R͓̽I͓̽E͓̽D͓̽ P͓̽E͓̽O͓̽P͓̽L͓̽E͓̽ O͓̽N͓̽ T͓̽H͓̽I͓̽S͓̽ P͓̽L͓̽A͓̽T͓̽F͓̽O͓̽R͓̽M͓̽*͓̽๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿฝ


Anonymous

RAW PHOTOS 6: Happy married life to Mr and Mrs Olawale Olaoluwa Akinwande, May your journey of love knows no end!

RAW PHOTOS 6: Happy married life to Mr and Mrs Olawale Olaoluwa Akinwande, May your journey of love knows no end!

Wishing you a lifetime of love and happiness." May your love forever grow.



"May the years ahead be filled with lasting joy."



"Wishing you joy, love and happiness on your wedding
 day and as you begin your new life together."



"May today be the beginning of a long,
happy life together."









May the love you share today grow stronger as you
grow old together."













Comrade Dele Abiola ร nd the couple


"May the love and happiness you feel today shine
through the years ahead."


"Best wishes on this wonderful journey, as you build your new lives together."


"May your joining together bring you more joy than you can imagine."


"We wish you all the best as you embark on this wonderful union."


"Congratulations"


By Comrade Dele Abiola.


Wishing you a lifetime of love and happiness." May your love forever grow.



"May the years ahead be filled with lasting joy."



"Wishing you joy, love and happiness on your wedding
 day and as you begin your new life together."



"May today be the beginning of a long,
happy life together."









May the love you share today grow stronger as you
grow old together."













Comrade Dele Abiola ร nd the couple


"May the love and happiness you feel today shine
through the years ahead."


"Best wishes on this wonderful journey, as you build your new lives together."


"May your joining together bring you more joy than you can imagine."


"We wish you all the best as you embark on this wonderful union."


"Congratulations"


By Comrade Dele Abiola.


RAW PHOTOS 5: Mary Modupe And Olawale Olaoluwa Exchange Marriage Vows

RAW PHOTOS 5: Mary Modupe And Olawale Olaoluwa Exchange Marriage Vows


























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